Negative Advertising --- How do you respond?

This happens to be about the local florist industry but could be about any other local business as well. As a florist we are used to Valentines Day competition not only from fellow florists but from any retailer/provider of thoughtful gifts and services. Where I have a problem is in negative advertising.

I was watching WWAY the other night and they are promoting a video valentine program and leading with the words "Ditch The Flowers". The banner on their website also screams, "Ditch the Flowers". My point is that they should be able to sell their product based on it's own merits without attacking a whole group of small local businesses. Their position as a media leader in the community makes it even more disappointing.

I sent them a respectful email yesterday and it was ignored. I sent it again this morning and the contents really got my dander up. Here they are in chronological order, I apologize for the length.....

Dear Mr. Combs,

As a Florist shop owner in Wilmington I was watching your programming last
night and was dismayed to see a short advertisement for your "Valentine's
Video" enterprise that started out with the comment, "Ditch the Flowers".

As one of many struggling florist owners in this region I wish that your
marketing personnel would find a better way to promote their venture than
tearing down such a traditional gift as flowers.

Valentines is our Christmas and while it may seem silly to complain about
such a small thing I hope you understand our position.

Thank you for your attention to this matter,
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Just a follow up to see if you received this message.

I now see that you are advertising "Ditch the Flowers" in a banner ad on
your website.

We are members of the Society of American Florists and they have asked
that we inform them of situations such as these. Before I did that, since
it seems like such a simple thing to fix, I wanted to know your position.
In addition, I contacted other local florists yesterday and they are eager
to learn your reaction as well.

Thanks in advance for your prompt response.
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here is his response;

Mr. Cook,

Thank you for contacting us with your concern. Our promotion is not
intended to get people to stop supporting the local florists but an
attempt to give our viewers another option for Valentines Day that is
quite unique. If you or the Society of American Florists would like to
partner with us on future promotions we would be happy to sit down and
share ideas. Just let me know and I can put you in touch with one of our
local sales reps.

Sincerely,
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ok, this is where I got red under the collar. Did I over-react in this next response?

First, thanks for the prompt reply this morning. Second, I think it is
clear that you are brushing this aside and I would like to re-iterate our
position.

You claim that your promotion is "not intended to get people to stop
supporting the local florists" and yet the banner ad on your website
screams, "Ditch the Flowers"????? Please do not insult my intelligence.

I think I'm going to start a negative advertisement campaign of my own
this weekend. I'm turning on WWAY (right now as a matter of fact) and
notating the local businesses who advertise on your channel. Then I'm
going to personally visit them and show them how WWAY is handling this
situation. I'm going to call it "Ditch your local TV Station that
Negatively Advertises against local small business". I know it's not
catchy but I'm working under time constraints. Should have time to get a
website off the ground this afternoon as well. Is there anything
different in this than the way you are treating local florists?

The only way to handle this situation professionally is to remove the
phrase "Ditch the Flowers" from your promotion and to do it Today. This
is Valentines Week and I'd much prefer to concentrate on my business than
initiating a negative campaign against yours. But I will.

Thanks for your attention to this matter.
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and here is his next response;

Mr. Cook,

I'm sorry you feel that way. We will certainly take your concerns under
advisement.

Have a great day!
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and finally (thanks for sticking in there!) my last response.

Thank you for taking them under advisement.

Would you like to be advised of the status of my own negative campaign?
I'm actually having fun putting the flyer together, although I have to say
that I'd prefer not to watch "The View" to get my visits lined up. Not
looking forward to the soaps either.

But then I thought, why limit myself to current advertiser's? Obviously
they will be first on the marketing list for my new campaign but WWAY
certainly is not limiting themselves to current flower consumers.

Have a blessed day!